Not to flex, but I have a lot of experience with grief — and despite knowing firsthand how little People Saying Something helps, I still feel the urge to condole other folks in their grieving. I wrote a little bit about that. CW: It's heavy. henry.codes/writing/what-to-say
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    …in reply to @404boyfriend
    I know this is nothing that hasn't been written before, but I wanted to write from my own experience, just to have done it, and maybe to do a little ~processing~ 🤪